The FEMTA Baby Method

FEMTA is an online software in which mommies can keep track of their period, fertility days and pregnancy period. FEMTA will provide a set of calendars which covers among others “safe” and “unsafe” time during women’s cycle, days to get pregnant, estimating date of childbirth and last but not least planning the gender of your baby.

Click here for free FEMTA 50 days Evaluation Period offer link.

The Shettle Method for Baby Gender Selection

The Shettles Method is based on the theory that:
- male (Y) sperm is more fragile that the female (X) sperm
- male (Y) sperm is more faster that the female (X) sperm
- acidic environment harms male (Y) sperm

To get baby boy:
- make love as close as the ovulation so that Y-sperm arrive first and achieve conception
- deeper penetration in order to deposit sperm at the least acidic area which is near to the uterus opening. Also recommended is rear entry.
- women need to achieve orgasm as they make vaginal environment more alkaline

To get baby girl:
- make love 2 ½ to 3 days before ovulation as X-sperm is slower to arrive at the target
- to abstain until 12 hours prior to ovulation to boost the sperm count which is supposedly to better favors male sperms
- immediately after the menstrual period ends, to make love frequently until 48 hours before ovulation
- shallow penetration with sperm deposited closer to the entrance as the area is more acidic and therefore inhibits the weaker Y sperm
- women to avoid having orgasm
- missionary position is advised or any shallow penetration to deposit sperm further from cervix entrance

Long Weekend Holiday!

Hiya! Weekend is fast approaching! I'll on holiday for Friday and Monday so it'll be a long weekend for me. Going to Cameron Highland for hillside vacation with the family.

Will share more baby tips next week. Enjoy your weekend too!!

Fertility Calculator

To get optimal result, baby would be mommies should be aware of her most fertile days. These are the three days before ovulation, the ovulation day itself and one day after the ovulation day.

Click here to get to Fertility Calculator website.

The Jonas Method for Baby Gender

This method basically calculates the baby’s gender, risk factor (birth defects and metal retardation) and mum’s possibility of getting pregnant by the date and time of the mother’s birth date.

The method is founded on three principles:
1. Women’s fertility depends on recurrence of the sun and moon’s angle occurring at their own birth.
2. Baby gender is determined by the position of the moon at conception.
3. The viability of the fetus is affected by certain configuration of the nearer celestial bodies.

I’ve used the Jonas calculator and from my birth date and time – 1st June 1975 @ 10.00 am.. to get a baby girl, I should conceived 24 hours before 23 Aug 2008 (Risk factor 2.. yikes) 21 Oct 2008 (0 risk factor.. yes!) 18 Dec 2008 (Risk factor 3.. double yikes)

Click here for the Jonas Method Calculator.

My Two Cents Baby Worth

Gals.. I have to say I never thought that there are sooo many methods out there on choosing baby gender. Wow!

Saying that, I think there is no need to get confused, try to practise as much tips as possible.. but that shouldn't stop the fun in trying and therefore having beautiful, bouncy baby.. be it boy and girl...

Don't get stressed and of course.. pray!

Baby Alkaline or Acidic Forming Food

In a nutshell: Baby Girl = acidic environment. Baby Boy = alkaline environment.

For Baby Girl;

Highest Acid Forming Foods: Barley, Beef, brazil nut, carob, Cottonseed meal, Fried foods of any kind, Hazelnut, Ice cream, lobster, malt, Pheasant, processed cheese, puddings/jams/jellies, soybeans, sugar/cocoa, vinegar, walnut

High Acid Forming Foods: Aspartame, barley groats, casein(milk protein), carrots, cheese, chestnut oil, chick peas, chicken, corn, cranberry, crustaceans, green peas, lard, legumes, maize, nutmeg, oat bran, palm kernel oil, peanut, pecan, pistachio seed, pomegranate, pork, rye, saccharin, snow peas, soy milk, veal, yeast/hops/beer/wine

Low Acid Forming Foods: adzuki beans, aged cheese, alcohol, almond oil, balsamic vinegar, black tea, buckwheat, cashew oil, chard, cow milk, farina/semolia, goat milk, goose, lamb, lima bean, navy/red beans, pinto beans, plum, prune, safflower oil, shell fish, sesame oil, tapioca, tofu, tomato, turkey, vanilla, wheat, white beans, white rice

Lowest Acid Forming Foods: Amaranth, Brown rice, canola oil, cherimoya, chutney, coffee, cream, curry, dates, fish, gelatin, goat cheese, grape seed oil, guava, honey, kasha, kidney beans, maple syrup, millet, msg, persimmon juice pickled fruit, pine nut, pineapple, pumpkin seed oil, rhubard, rice vinegar, sheep cheese, spinach, string/wax bean, venison, wild duck, yogurt.

For Baby Boy;

Highest Alkaline Forming Foods: baking soda, burdock, daikon, hydrogenated oil, lentils, nectarines, onion, sea vegetables, persimmon, raspberry, sweet potato/yam, table salt, tangerine, umeboshi plums, wakame, watermelon, yam

High Alkaline Forming Foods: broccoli, cantaloupe, chestnut, cinnamon, citrus, endive, garlic, ginger root, grain beverage, honeydew, kale, kohlrabi, loganberry, mango, mineral water, molasses, mustard green, olive, parslet, parsnip, pepper, poppy seed, sea salt, soy sauce, spices, taro

Low Alkaline Forming Foods: apple, almond, apple cider, bell pepper, blackberry, cauliflower, cherry, cod liver oil, collard greens, eggplant, evening primrose oil, fungi, ginseng, green tea, mu tea, mushroom, papaya, peach, pear/ avocado, pineapple juice, potato, pumpkin, rice syrup, rutabaga, sake, sesame seed oil, sprouts

Lowest Alkaline Forming Foods: algae, apricot, avocado oil, banana, beet, blueberry, brussel sprout, chive/cilantro, coconut oil, currant, ghee(clarified butter), ginger tea, grain coffee, grape, human milk, jicama, lettuces, linseed oil, most seeds, oats, okra, olive oil, quinoa, raison, squashes, strawberry, sucanat, sulfite, turnip greens umeboshi vinegar wild rice

My Baby Gender Preference

For me, a boy or baby girl does not matter either way as long as they are healthy and happy. Of course, I only have one child now so I have two more chance to get it right. But why not? If I have a boy and a girl, the next babies would be bonuses whatever their gender may be.

For my case studies I have my sis-in-laws. One has 2 boys and another has three girls. The girls mum of course really wants a baby boy and is trying for another baby. I really wish she got her baby boy soon. So… no harm in trying these gender methods, I’d say.

The Choice Method for Baby Gender

Previously known as the Selnas Method, it uses the Polarity Cycle as discovered by a Cellular Biologist from France, Patrick Schoun.

The polarity cycle have some similarity as the menstrual cycle.

The theory stated: When the charges on ovum membrane are neutral, sperm carrying X or Y chromosome is able to penetrate the ovum, giving 50-50% chance of getting a boy or a girl.

For baby boys: negatively charged egg attracts Y sperms (XY)
For baby girls: positively charged egg attracts X sperms (XX)

* note: mum's ovum is X. dad's sperm is eithr X or Y

The polarity cycle is due to all gender are effected by “ionic factor” producing specific charges to ovum membrane and sperm. The factors include mum’s age, blood type and menstrual cycle will be forwarded to a laboratory in France for analysis and parents will be given the Choice Pregnancy Chart for dates or period optimal in getting a baby boy or girl.

There are 70 days / year for each polarity i.e. 70 days optimal dates for baby girls and 70 days for baby boys. The other 200 days are 50 – 50% chance of getting either a baby boy or baby girl. From their clinical test, the method resulted in 98.7% success rate.

Dry stuffs.. For me, this method is more suitable for those who are more serious on getting the specific type of baby gender. More cost involved but the success rate is really amazing!

Malay Baby Gender Tips

Firstly, I really love this picture of Kimi when he's a year plus of age.. chubby chubby! Just like me!

OK.. lets get back on track!

As we know, the males determines baby gender as they are the carrier for X and Y chromosome. Ladies only carry the X chromosome. So XX = girl and XY = boy. Therefore ladies, you can put the blame solely on the hubby on gender selection ha ha..

Y chromosome is supposedly more active and faster but expired quickly that X that is slower but live longer. Y is more durable in alkaline condition but X thrives in acidic condition.

So....

To get baby boys:
1) Acidic food such as citrus fruits, pineapples, mangoes, vinegar to be avoided 2 months before conceiving. Seafood, calcium and magnesium are encouraged.
2) Make love on or just after ovulation but not too often.
3) Providing alkaline environment by douching (sodium bicarbonate liquid – can be purchased from pharmacies) 2 hours before intercourse.

To get baby girls:
1) Consume acidic food such as citrus fruits, pineapples, mangoes, vinegar and gas drinks. Avoid seafood.
2) Make love before ovulation and only after 5 days of ovulation. And do it frequently.
3) Providing acidic environment by douching (very dilute lactycyd) 2 hours before intercourse.

* I do not prefer the douching by the way, but each of their own way, I supposed.

To get twins:

Under normal circumstances, apparently the probability of getting twins is 1/80 pregnancies. For those on clomiphene (a fertility hormone pill) the probability is between 5 – 10%. Those on fertility injection or IVF, the chances are 20-30%.

Chinese Baby Gender Prediction Table

The Chinese with their thousand of year’s civilization should have something up their sleeves on predicting baby gender. Especially when they have a one child policy some years back, parents have preference for certain gender – mostly boys as of their culture boys are more valuable then girls. So the more humane ways on getting boys is gender prediction table.

For ladies aged 18 - 31 years old:

For ladies aged 32 - 45 years old:

For the Chinese, the age is calculated from our conception, for example, myself – I was born on June 1st, 1975, in June 2008, I will be 33 years old.

Therefore, to use this calendar, I must add on 9 months (or a year for my formation months in my mum’s womb) making me 34 years old.

So…. To get a girl, I should look at the pink squares at column no. 34, to get a girl, ideally I should conceived on February, April, May, July, August, September and October…

Think I’ll try in July, 4 months for me to adjust. I have a fondness for this method as one of my Chinese girlfriend use the table for her second baby. Come to think of it most of the Chinese couple do have pair of kids - a boy and a girl. Certainly food for thoughts!

Care to join me?

Baby Gender Selection

Well, let's get on some of the good stuffs.

There are some tips on getting baby prediction right. Some includes:
Old Wife's Tale
Malay Style
Chinese Style
and lot's more...

I'll keep adding the list once I came across additional tips and style.

The tips will be by post so that you and I have no problem in accessing them later. Well, who know we might use it again, over and over.

Getting Started

To first start it all, well, we have to start preparing ourself - mentally and physically. Getting the body ready by starting on good nutrition and fitness level.

Mentally of course with the hubby and existing kid i.e. Kimi, is the money there for additional kid and what about intimite moment with hubby...

So start preparing.. brief the hubby, do marathon sessions he he he...

For me, I've subscribe to my reliable baby planner website like I did with Kimi.. My doc start giving me folic acid and calcium tablets.. well baby, here I come!!!

About Me

Hi! The reason for creating this blog is to share baby tips as well as the hot topic of choosing baby gender. I have a son - Kimi who is going to be three next June so the next one I hope to get a baby girl.. so join me on this journey together.. exploring and having fun on choosing our baby girl or boy!